Okay, let’s just jump in. After spotting her from across the room you wonder how to make a good first impression without sounding overly cheesy. Your best bet for making a memorable impression is to use pickup rizz lines. This is how to make her fall in love with you.
If you want to start off right, be real. Anyone dislikes someone who is phony. When you do compliment her, be sure to make it genuine. This is a simple but powerful way to compliment her. If you use this phrase, it shows that she is the one who has noticed her.
Laughter is your friend. Humor is the perfect way to ease tensions. It’s all about timing. If you don’t time your joke well, it may come across that you are trying to impress her. Try something lighthearted such as, “Does she have a Map?” It can help to deliver the statement with some charm.
Storytime! Storytime! She laughed. After a few hours of chatting about favorite genres and writers, they both had a good laugh. Morale of the Story? When it comes to displaying genuine interest, sometimes that is all you need.
In order to find a common interest, you should first identify your own. Questions that are more complex than simply yes/no answers will elicit a deeper response. It shows your interest in the person’s experiences and allows you to have a deeper discussion.
It’s okay to take risks, but confidence is also important. However, there is a fine balance between confidence and arrogance. If you’re confident, it can be respectful to say “You sound like someone who has a good idea of what she wants. Would you mind me joining for coffee?”
Open and welcoming body language. You should maintain eye contact with her, but not staring at her. When you smile, you become more approachable.
This is another great tip: don’t share anything too serious right away. Leave the heavy confessions to later dates. It’s okay to mention your love for spontaneous road trips. Or cooking Italian meals on weekends, as it can be therapeutic after stressful work weeks.
It’s important to remember this golden rule. Listen more. Active listening, which involves genuinely focusing on what your partner has to share rather than waiting to be heard again, can make you appear more approachable.
Anecdote alert! I had a buddy who met his girl at an art museum by asking, “What piece did she notice first and why?” Their discussions of the artworks led to deeper conversations about perspective and life.
Be yourself. This may sound like a cliché, but it’s true. Genuineness shines more than any prepared line.
We’ve got you covered! A crash course in how to use smooth rizzlines, guaranteed (well, almost) to not only grab her attention but keep conversations flowing as naturally as butter melting on warm toast.